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My breakdancing manager

If you’re like me, you can envision hundreds of horrifying outcomes to any situation. This includes mundane things like tying shoelaces, eating a sandwich, or blinking. There are potential disasters in everything! The possibility one of them might occur fills you with dread.

I have a trick for subduing my dread. It might work for you.

I used it today.

I had to meet my manager to discuss a schedule change I’d proposed. The amount I wanted the schedule change was very, very high, which meant my dread engine was running even harder than usual.

Until …

Instead of asking “What’s the worst that could happen?” I remembered to ask, “Of all the things that could happen, which are actually likely?”

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In many situations, thinking in probabilities is much kinder–to yourself–than thinking in possibilities.

But, hey, it’s good to imagine the possibilities, too! I’ve smiled all day, imagining my manager breakdancing.

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  1. August 7, 2015 at 1:25 pm

    Good strategy, I gotta try it!

    • August 7, 2015 at 2:30 pm

      It’s made a world of difference for me, especially with practice and a growing body of results confirming my suspicions! 🙂

  2. August 7, 2015 at 2:21 pm

    The power of positive thinking!

  3. August 7, 2015 at 6:17 pm

    I’m kind of rooting for “Skeletor takes over the universe.” (I never could help feeling a little bad for the guy.)

  4. August 7, 2015 at 8:26 pm

    Oh boy. I’m going to tattoo this onto my husband who constantly thinks the sky is falling. I love him dearly but he is driving me nuts.

  5. August 7, 2015 at 10:30 pm

    Does one of those say “forced to eat poop”?! Hehe!

    I’ll have to try this. Might be helpful with my anxiety, as I usually jump to the worst case scenario for, well, life and stick with that.

  6. August 8, 2015 at 10:51 am

    I do this, too! Because being able to imagine the worst of all things is the downside of having a good imagination… and of course we’re not going to trade in the good imagination for anything, so, it must be managed. Loved this.

    • August 8, 2015 at 10:57 am

      YES!

      (Anthony asked, “Twilight Sparkle joining you is possible?” I replied, “Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean couldn’t happen someday, with the right person finding the right magic stone or something!” He shook his head, but I was grinning. I don’t want to trade this for anything. And seriously, I kept giggling last night imagining my focused, diligent, on-point manager shouting, “Breakdance duel!!!” Yep, I’ll keep the imagination, even with its sticky parts. 😀

      (Did I just write all that in parenthetical?))

  7. NotAPunkRocker
    August 9, 2015 at 12:45 pm

    I need to do this before work tomorrow 🙂

  8. August 9, 2015 at 4:32 pm

    I need to borrow this strategy.

  9. August 15, 2015 at 7:49 pm

    Love your diagram! And reusable in many future scenarios too, I’ll wager!

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